Monday, August 16, 2010

Don't Sweat It

I admit that I love the reality TV series that focus on outdoor survival. My favorite is the original Survivorman with Les Stroud that has spawned numerous other shows: Man vs. Wild, Dual Survivor, and Man, Woman, Wild, all from the Discovery Channel. They must trigger my primal instinct to survive against whatever environment, terrain and nature throws at you, to find shelter, stay warm or cool, make a fire, hunt & gather something to eat, and always, always find suitable drinking water. One major survival skill that is repeated often is, when exposed to the elements, never sweat.

Our family has branded this one critical piece of information into our primal survival skill set, the one-liner from Survivorman, “never sweat, it can kill you”. In each episode, Les Stroud will make at least one, if not many, statements regarding sweat. In being exposed, dying of hypothermia, heat exhaustion or dehydration in all terrains: mountain glaciers, central American jungles, or high-desert plateaus. We never knew how dangerous and critical the issue of sweat was to our survival, but now we share our wisdom throughout our daily activities. “Dad, I am sweating, I need to take a break from mowing the lawn”, or while walking through the mall, “Dad, I feel some sweat forming, we need to stop and rehydrate…hey look, Jamba Juice”. Now when we take a day hike through the Mt. Hood National Forrest we bring along a pack mule carrying gallons of water and extra dry clothes…just in case we sweat.

I think this survival tip is a good reminder for us as Shepherds to survive in ministry. That just as sweat is the body’s reaction to overexertion and overheating, so we find ourselves often with mental, emotional, relational, physical and spiritual overexertion and overheating…and we sweat. The signs of sweat might be physical and mental lethargy, unmotivated work, feeling negative, irritable and critical, unhealthy physical habits of overeating and lack of exercise, isolation from family and friends, a lack of passion in our call and zeal in our service to Christ. The dangerous outcome of exposure to the elements without heading the sweat warnings are despondency, depression, vulnerability to temptation, outburst of anger, bitterness, and even laying down the Shepherd’s staff and walking away. Pay attention when you sweat.

When we recognize the sweat forming rings under our arms, or pools down our back, and we need to wipe our foreheads often, it is a sign we need to stop, rest, rehydrate and put on some dry clothes. We do that by taking our vacation time, getting away, or prioritizing recharge time with family, at the golf course, fishing, whatever. It is difficult to find those times to pay attention to our needs when the needs of Shepherding are constant, demanding, and ever increasing. Shepherding is hard work and hard work produces a lot of sweat, but our key to survival is to “never sweat, it will kill you.”

How do you find weekly times to stop, rest and recharge?  What activities do you enjoy that strengthen and encourage you? 

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Walking in Ministry

The sun danced on the rolling waves as they bowed upon the warm sandy beaches. A light breeze from the vast expanse of the ocean refreshed all the senses with its salty, cool, marine air. This was a perfect day at one of my favorite places on this earth, New Brighton State Beach near Santa Cruz, CA. Charlene and I would take daily long walks on this beach. As we held hands, we would sometimes share the details of our day, dream of our future together or simply walk silently enjoying the moment. This was one of those moments, perfect beach weather, walking with my beautiful young bride, and then I stepped on something warm, soft and mushy and it pushed between my toes. I instinctively hopped on one foot with a yell of terror as the pungent odor filled my nose. Dog Poop! Somebody must have been walking a Saint Bernard which had just eaten two full bags of Extra Fiber Big Dog Chow. Gagging as I hop into the water and let the waves wash away the “stuff”, I am now filled with anger, disgust, and nausea. In an instant when all was perfect, suddenly was replaced with thoughts of drowning some guy walking his Saint Bernard on the beach.

At times ministry can be like that as well. It takes just one step into somebody else’s dog poop to ruin the day. Our full attention and thoughts focus on that smelly, irritating, nauseating poo. You know those times I am talking about. After you have given your best leading Sunday morning worship, Ms. Spiritual walks up and says, “Good sermon Pastor, but its too bad the Holy Spirit didn’t show up today, like it did when Pastor Moses (who could part the Red Sea each Sunday) would preach…now that was powerful preaching.” Or maybe the phone call from a starved sheep, who feels they are not being “fed” by your teaching, even though they only attend a third of the time. And we can step in the smelly poo, by being overly critical of our own missteps in the sermon, in relationships, in not fulfilling a task or role like we feel we should, etc. Being focused in the poo, robs us of the joy of what God is doing around us and through us as his Shepherds.

It is a privilege and joy to serve as Shepherd of God’s flock, and when we look around we can see the Great Shepherd at work in people’s lives through us. He is encouraging those ready to give up, through our affirming words and prayers. He is transforming lives from a worldly view to God’s view by the renewing of their mind, through our teaching in small groups, sermons, counsel and writing. He provides hope, peace, joy, and forgiveness to the flock through our ministry even in the simplest, ordinary act. God uses us as shepherds/pastors for his purpose and will, a gift from Christ to his flock.

An encouragement to my friends, my fellow Shepherds, and specifically a reminder to myself, be careful of dwelling on, being overly sensitive, or overreacting to the poo as we walk in ministry. It’s a picture perfect day and God is walking beside us.

Share one story of where God has used you to bring hope, joy, encouragement, or truth to another within the past month. Why did it affirm and bring joy to you?

Monday, August 2, 2010

Gathering the Wood


To my fellow shepherds. The work and calling of the Shepherd is unique. Whether you have been a pastor for a few years, as myself, or for a full lifetime you know this calling is challenging, rewarding, exhausting, exhilerating, deflating, inflating, mundane, transforming, impacting and heartbreaking. At times we may experience all of those emotions within a week of caring for God's sheep.

I would like to invite you to the Shepherds Campfire. After a long day caring for the sheep, feeding them, leading them to the living water, protecting them from predators, searching for those that have wandered off, and seperating those that are butting heads, we gather in the cool of the night. Finding a comfortable spot, we lay our staff's down, sip on a hot cup of coffee, and sit around the glow of the campfire in the warmth of fellow shepherds and friends.

I am gathering the wood and calling my friends, my fellow Shepherds to join the campfire. I would like to initiate the campfire discussion with a weekly blog and encourage you to share, to vent, to inform, to plead, to pursuade, to encourage or to give thanks. I don't want to be the only one who shares...for I need you. If you are a typical pastor, I know you are busy, being pulled in various directions, but my hope is that this blog will be an opportunity for us to gather, laugh and maybe even cry as we share in this great and unique calling together.

Campfire Question: Do you feel you need the friendship and support of other pastors? Why?